Iv been asked this question several times. So your boyfriend wants you to take pictures of your breasts and send them to him online, or maybe your husband wants to bring his fancy new digital camera into the bedroom one night. There are many variations on this theme, and I’ve heard them all, but in every case the answer is the same:
Why is it that your boyfriend, or husband, or “friend” wants pictures and videos of you naked? So he can masturbate to them!
Are you old enough to remember the time before digital cameras? If so, you probably recall that cameras weren’t something everyone you knew had, and if you or your friends did have one, they only got used on special occasions; Birthdays, weddings, that’s about it. And why was that? Because back in the day, unless you had your own darkroom, you couldn’t even see your pictures without taking them somewhere to get developed.
The invention of the digital camera was to pornography what the invention of the printing press was to literature.
Think about it; Everyone you know has a camera that they can use to shoot whatever they want, and all they have to do to “process” the pictures is to plug it into a computer. Now every guy with a picture-phone thinks he’s Ron Jeremy, and you can buy your teenaged daughter a pink webcam at Game for R500 that’ll either make her a youtube celebrity, or give her one hell of an interesting reputation at her highschool.
So is this a good thing? Clearly not in a great many cases, but like everything else in life, it’s highly situational. If you and your guy are on good terms (and you’re both adults, obviously), and you trust him not to send the picture of you licking his balls to all his friends on Facebook, then some dirty photos or videos can be some truly harmless fun for both of you.
But… If you just met a guy online and he can’t seem to carry on a conversation for 20 minutes without insisting that you send him a picture of your tits, then I’d say that’s a pretty good indicator that any skin you upload to the man has a real decent chance of traumatizing your father for life the next time he goes web-surfing for amateur porn.