Most men have a very hard time understanding women, their behavior simply baffles the majority of us… and when it comes to dating them it only gets worse.

It’s ironic when you pause to think about it, because we are utterly fascinated by these creatures, yet have absolutely no clue what is going on inside their pretty little heads. This can become a major problem for some men, and if you are one of them… or are not sure, pay attention.

To successfully seduce women you first need to understand how they operate… you can’t fly a plane if you don’t understand how the control work! That’s why you have this manual, you can consider it as your flight manual… because with it you can make your dating life “take off” 🙂

Let’s begin by talking about what women want, need and desire.

If you were to ask any average joe what he wants in his life in terms of a woman, chances are the FIRST thing that comes out of his mouth will be along the lines of “as gorgeous as possible”.

Your own answer would be similar, wouldn’t it?

Guess what? Women know that! They’ve known that men are mostly attracted to looks for thousands of years, and they have consistently played that card to their advantage to this day.

Why do you think women spend so much time and money on their appearance?

It’s because they know that all they need to attract a man is their hot body and pretty face, and that same strategy works for them every time. This is why women have an unfair advantage over men in the dating game, they already know exactly what they need to do… and for them figuring that out is much easier than it is for us.

Knowing this, how do you think that you could benefit from understanding the process that women use to attract men?

You can do the same thing that they do! Identify exactly what most women desire in a man and focus all of your energy on becoming that man. Sounds easy enough, right?

Well it is, and once you get the hang of things you can easily get any woman that you desire to become interested in you. By the end of this chapter you will have learned everything that you need to know about understanding why women choose certain men over others.

Now let’s discuss what most women desire, and why they think the way that they do.

The Fairy Tale

Regardless of their genes, upbringing, environment, personal goals, and all other factors that affects a young woman’s life, all females are “programmed” to desire one thing above all… the fairy tale.

The fairy tale man, the fairy tale wedding, the fairy tale home, the fairy tale job… the fairy tale LIFE.

However, we only need to focus on one of those for now… the fairy tale man, after all this IS a seduction guide 🙂

Now just how do you go about becoming that fairy tale man, you might ask?


The average hot woman in this day-and-age has been severely influenced by soap operas, talk shows, romance novels, and those girly magazines that seem to be written in greek whenever a man attempts to read one. These outside sources “tell” women what they should expect from the perfect mate, so in turn they also “tell” us what the women want… and even show us how to give it to them!

If you were to study these references (as I have), you’d learn that what women really want is an instant connection based on something that a man does that sets him apart from the rest of the pack.

Be unique. Be creative.

Do you think that women believe that their “knight in shining armor” will just be a good looking guy with a few good lines and a sense of humor?

Hell no!

You’ve Got To Be Special!

Women’s minds are filled with all of the romantic stories that they’ve read or watched during their lives, and they honestly believe that if they wait… one day their prince charming will come to sweep them off of their feet.

The beauty of this is…

They have NO IDEA what it is that they are waiting for. It could be a certain spark or connection, or perhaps some form of “sign”. However, they do know one thing for certain :

They will KNOW when it happens… and it IS going to be special.

They key word is SPECIAL. That’s why you need to be unique and creative, because if you present yourself to her the same way that every other shmoe in her past has… how will you be able to make her feel like you have that SPECIAL something that she’s been looking for?

You won’t. So be different and show her something that she’s never seen before, and I guaranteed that your success rate will improve dramatically.

I’m sure that you’ve heard people say “just be yourself” countless times when they were giving tips on attracting women… this is nothing short of old fashioned BAD advice. Take it from me, because I’m a professional and do this for a living… the only way that “being yourself” will work with women is if you are ALREADY the type of man that women are attracted to.

If you were… you wouldn’t need to be reading this manual, so instead of “just being yourself” you need to work on becoming the type of man that women are drawn to. Notice how I say BECOME that type of man rather than ACT like that type of man. Putting up a front will only get you so far… no matter how good of an actor you are. Just relax and read this guide, it is designed to teach you how to mold yourself into the type of man that women go crazy over… follow my lead and you’ll be up to your chin in hot women within a matter of weeks.

That’s just about all you need to know about understanding how the female mind works. You now know what you need to do to give women what they want, need, and desire… the rest of this manual will show you HOW to do it.

On a final note, I’d like you to keep in mind that most of the things that you do to be successful with women may not make much sense to you… because after all, you are a man not a woman 🙂 It doesn’t matter if it makes sense, just that it works!

Adapted from The Players Black Book